Stop, read, and think for a while

Well, I learnt a lot nowadays.
(Yes, everyone did too, everyday)!

CONFIDENT:

Different people have different perspective in their life. But I think, one of the thing that can really separate and differentiate human being (socially) is how they 'boast' or be confident of who they are.

Yes, it is all about CONFIDENT!

I like to observe and learn from people around me; though they come from a poor family, not beautiful, ugly, SHORT, fat, or totally not from high-class people, BUT, they are much more OUTSTANDING compared to others. Why? CONFIDENT.

That is how the first class mentality people do.

Look around you. And, observe each and everyone of them: 

How do they talk?

How do they walk?

How do they bring themselves to the middle of the world?

When people sing, though their voice is not that good, but because of their CONFIDENT, people see their performance as something OUTSTANDING.

I watched X-Factor in YouTube. 

And, one of the reason why the panel give them a 'Yes' is because of their CONFIDENT, and thus becoming OUTSTANDING. CONFIDENT is one of the 'X factor' that not everyone has.

Steve Brookstein, the first X-Factor winner that was given a second chance during his audition. Why? At first, he brought not a good image of himself.  He came with just a little confident of himself, his voice and his personality. He is not so outstanding. And I think, if I am the panel, I will too say either 'Yes' for his voice, 'No' for his personality, and it can be 'maybe' too. I like his voice! Especially when he sang Elton John's and Phil Collins' songs. I agreed that he got the voice! But, you can't convince people, or make people believe in you if you yourself lack of confident!

So, how about you?

Are you OUTSTANDING enough?

How CONFIDENT you are in public?

P/S: But remember, being confident doesn't mean that we need to be proud, boast, and do not respect other. Be CONFIDENT, be OUTSTANDING, and at the same time, be HUMBLE and RESPECT others. That is the real meaning of the real 'CONFIDENT' people.

This is just a piece of idea of mine.
Stop, read and think for a while.

God Bless.